A spouse's unfaithfulness is one of the most painful experiences anyone can have in life. Everyone involved feels betrayed, used, abandoned, and very angry when they discover that their spouse has had an affair. How do you overcome these feelings and move on to a better marriage?!
Some who have experienced rape, physical abuse, sexual abuse of their children, and infidelity have consistently said infidelity was worst. To be convinced of the devastating impact of infidelity, you only need to go through it once. ..William F. Harley, Marriage Builders.
More than 50% of all spouses are victims of infidelity. Which means that one spouse in most marriages will suffer the greatest marital pain possible at some time during their lifetimes.
Affairs usually begin with an attraction to someone you know fairly well, someone you spend time with each week -your friends or co-workers.
Coping with Infidelity: There are three parts to the way affairs should end. The first part is revealing the affair to one's spouse, the second part is never seeing or communicating with the lover again. The third part is getting through the symptoms of withdrawal after a permanent separation takes place. It's hard enough to restore a martial relationship when a lover is finally out of the picture. But it's "nearly" impossible when the lover is still hanging around. ...Marriage Builders. But with GOD, ALL Things Are Possible!
Infidelity has tragic consequences. Not only does unfaithfulness itself cause untold emotional suffering for victimized spouse, but affairs create a host of other problems, too. Unfaithfulness can cause venereal disease to the unsuspecting partner, pregnancy with a lover's child,which creates a host of other problems.
Let's cut infidelity off at its roots! Be bold and courageous with the temptation! When sin presents itself, RUN as in terror! Avoid sin! Get on the road to recovery from infidelity. Seek counseling.
YOU CAN SURVIVE INFIDELITY! I'm a witness! Marriage works, if you work it!
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Danny and Amelia Cole
...Serving Together
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