Date is a process for the Two

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Permalink Reply by Orlando Hill on April 19, 2009 at 2:41pm

We must understand to take the time to know someone while dating. Allow time to develop true love. Most times we move without the permission of God.

Permalink Reply by Cheryl Spearman on May 24, 2009 at 8:12am

Bro. Orlando, this is very true. It is so easy to get caught up in the hype of finally having someone in your life and it gets overshadowing of God's will at times. I found myself trying so hard to hold on to a relationship that I actually pushed the person away. Once I learned through God's unconditional love for me how to love myself, now I know how to love without becoming so clingy. Praying for God to send the man he created me for is what I do. He is out there and in God's time, not mine, he will find me. It's also very important to know who you are, that is is only way you will know how you are to be treated.

Permalink Reply by Orlando Hill on May 24, 2009 at 8:44am

Yes! What a word, Woman of God! We must love God and ourselves. We can't expect people to love us for who we are. That is so true that we must know who we are in God!

Permalink Reply by Cheryl Spearman on June 3, 2009 at 4:56am

My mind is often taken back to text message one of my dearest spiritual friend sent me. The message read "A woman should be so close to God, that a man has to seek Him to find her." I hear so many people say, "love is a fifty/fifty deal." I don't want only half of a person because I am whole through God. Adapting the pattern that society has created for a relationship only leads to broken living. Through praying, praising, and truly seeking God's guidance couples will experience marriage the way it originated from God.

Permalink Reply by peter wangaki simiyu on June 13, 2009 at 10:51am

True i surport that notion that marriage originates from God!
The Bible speaks true of this because it has to be holy i.e it comes from God or originates from God as you have put it.
It's a blessing from God,to it two can have sex as a gift from God,children are a blessing from the creator - God. Not man/woman plan.The fifty/fifty deal should a raise no where,cause it's the desire of the flesh.End result is no happiness it's zero.
Both woman & man should be close to God so as to be counselled & lead by the Spirit of God.None should be on God's side than the other.So no measure of Godliness in the two!It has to be equal opportunity/devine.