When the word tells you to consult GOD on everything, I have come to understand that we must lean on HIS understanding. HIS understanding and Wisdom is that which you may have right now. It is the wisdom and understanding that comes from the Holy Spirit. Essentially... you have his eyes. How do you get that wisdom and understanding. Allow GOD to show you YOU the way HE sees YOU. When you surrender it all to HIM... then you will see others the way HE sees them. The Holy Spirit will descend on you and you will receive its wisdom and understanding. Now you can move forward walking in HIS will for your life. Your guide will be the Holy Spirit which has given you that WISDOM and UNDERSTANDING that comes from GOD. So now, when you are making decisions... you consult GOD and use the gracious gift of HIS wisdom and understanding to direct your path. Again... this is NOT your wisdom... these are not your thoughts. Only a person who has a Christ Centered heart will truly understand what I am saying here. To totally be in the will of GOD for your life you must totally surrender it ALL to HIM. You can not have one leg in and one leg out. A completely surrendered person now has Christ at the center of his heart because he has seen himself the way GOD sees him (A broken individual).
Doing it this way, one's life will change and it WILL last because Christ sees what's in your heart and HE knows that you have sincerely surrendered it to HIM. Now you have the whole armor of GOD to thwart those fiery darts which are assaults on the mind. Now you have compassion for EVERYONE. Now you are patient, quick to listen and slow to speak, loving, forgiving. Why you ask? Because you now see that you had many issues that would have sent you straight to hell, but GOD's patience.. His grace and mercy allowed you time to see the error of your ways so you could change. You now understand what GRACE is...and because HE extended it to you YOU will extend to others. You are at a place now where you are maturing in the spirit. You have allowed GOD to help you remove the speck from your eye. But there is still much work to do on you. The speck is removed so you can see clearly... and as you work with Christ to remove the dirt completely from your entire body... you will see things even more clearer. All the answers to your questions and concerns begin by looking inward so you can see clearly outwardly. Self examination will be taken to a whole different level which will make you even more humble. You will become wiser... and you will become more secure in who you are now. You will be filled with the Holy Spirit.
Friends... I can honestly tell you this is an awesome ...AWESOME experience. You will have the peace that surpasses ALL understanding because it is GOD's wisdom and understanding that you now have. That kind of wisdom and understanding will allow you to see the deceptions and manipulations of this world that is taking place in the spiritual realm. You now see things that others don't see, so you will no longer be angry with your brother because you know it is not your brother that you should be angry with. There is so much more I can share, but I will stop here today and give you time to digest this.
(Inspired by GOD through Minister Vince McCaskill, Founder of the By GOD Inspired World Outreach and Worship Center in Southaven, MS USA)