Simplicity Men... That's What A Woman Wants. Valentines Day is Approaching so Read this And Watch Your Relationship Re-ignite!

Men as Valentines Day approaches I wanted to take a few seconds to share something with you that may help ignite your relationship with the special woman in your life. So hope this helps and I hope you take it in. You really don't need a special day to show the special lady in your life how much you love her. Remember, Valentines Day is a day to show the world how much you love her. In her case, it's the people she works with who will see just how much you love her. When she tells you not to send flowers, she actually means to send flowers. Your lady doesn't want to demand that you show her co-workers or friends how much you love her... instead she would prefer that you demand that the special delivery makes it there on time. Now, please understand... you should be showing how much you love your wife throughout the year. What I will share next won't cost you a dime. I consider this an investment in your relationship that I pray will produce good fruit. The best thing you can do won't cost you a dime. Listen and Hear her man. That's right, pay attention to what she is saying and hear what she is saying. It's in those moments where you will find out what matters most to her. You will find that it is not the grand things that you think she wants that will make her happy... my friend... it is the simple things. Yes... the word for today is SIMPLICITY. What kind of candy does she like? What kind of gum does she chew? What's the latest song she likes on the radio? You see, you will only know that if you pay attention. And when she is not expecting anything from you... leave a pack of that favorite chewing gum on her pillow with a personal hand written note that states how much you love her. Leave a bar of her favorite candy in a place she will see it with a special handwritten note. Run her bubble bath for her before she gets home from work or an errand. have it layed out for her so she can go right to her sanctuary and escape the stresses she has faced today. Leave her alone as she de-stresses in the comfort of a warm bubble bath. When she gets out... give her a massage (not expecting anything) to help her relieve the tension that I know she has in her muscles. Again my friend, do it without expecting something in return. Then when she is ready to talk... LISTEN and HEAR her. Show genuine interest in what she is saying even if you have heard her repeat the same thing over and over again. Perhaps she is repeating over and over again because you never heard her to begin with. When you listen and hear her, you will know how to support her. Lead your home with a loving heart and not an iron fist. I know what you are saying right now... "she is supposed to be submissive to you as scripture states," but let me flip this on you... ARE YOU SUBMISSIVE TO GOD? You see, as a man of the household GOD tells us in HIS word to Love your wife as JESUS loved the church. Think about that for a minute. JESUS went to the cross for a church, that even today, does not honor that sacrifice at times... but JESUS still went to the cross for you. HE SERVED THE CHURCH. Now.. are you loving your wife as JESUS loved the church? Are you SERVING your wife? I am not talking about going to work and bringing home the bread. I am talking about the extra simple things that don't cost you much. A GODLY woman will submit to a GODLY man. She will have no problem doing that. So are your actions lining up with the word of GOD? Are you submitting to the will of GOD for your life? If not, then she will not submit to you. Now back to this thing we call simplicity. My friend, it is the simple things that matters most to her. It is not the BIG thing that you break your neck trying to get for her. You see, if you listen and hear her... and do the simple things that matter most to her (you find this out by listening and hearing her), you will make significant progress in your relationship. Why you ask? Because if you pay attention to her needs then she knows she has YOUR HEART... and even if you can not get her that nice car or big house... she knows if you could you would. Your heart is what she desires most. She wants her man to have a loving heart towards GOD first... and then her.

So do the simple things leading up to Valentines day that won't cost you a dime, but will make a world of difference. Keep it going for the rest of your life. Remember, Valentines Day is not about you showing her how much you love her... it is really about showing the world (her circle of friends and co-workers) how much you love this woman. She already knows she has your heart because you have put in the work to listen and hear her!